06 Jun 2021

If you’re struggling to fit in, adjust to the workplace culture or you simply just identify as an introvert - then this one's for you. It may be extremely hard to blend in or you overthink about first impressions but just remember, first day’s can be daunting for even the most talented professional. 

 

No matter how many jobs you’ve had or people you’ve networked with, sometimes it just doesn’t feel natural to be the outgoing and positive person you’ve always wanted to be. And that’s okay! Here are some tips on how to bleed charisma amongst your colleagues.

Fake it ‘til you make it

Now I don’t mean make up stories and lie to your co-workers because they’ll see straight through that stuff. But put on a smile, show up and go above and beyond. If you have an optimistic outlook and mindset about your job, you’ll start to set a standard of being a hard worker and your co-workers will see that you’re all about the workplace’s culture!

Don’t sell yourself short

When you’re the new person, it’s so normal to just sit in the background and follow the example lead from your co-workers and managers around you. While it is important to pay attention to social cues and the body language of the people around you, just remember they hired you for a reason and your skills and input are valued! If you’ve got ideas or suggestions, share them! Believe in yourself and start strong.

Shine the spotlight on others and their achievements

In any business, there are always going to be complaints but not enough praises and compliments. Nobody can have enough praise + they will always appreciate the fact you care enough to pay attention to what they do and have achieved. People love when you bring them up, so don’t overdo it but definitely get into the habit of this!

Choose your attitude wisely

We all want to associate ourselves with happy and fulfilled people that in turn, brighten up your day. The words you use affect the attitudes of others.

For example, you don’t have to go to work, you get to share your cool ideas and collaborate with like minded people. You don’t have to go to the gym, you get to improve your mental and physical well being. You don’t have to go to dinner with friends you haven’t seen in a while, you get to share memories and create new ones.

This doesn’t mean you have to go be the most talkative or outgoing person. Just be the person that everyone wants to be around!

Stay neutral and open-minded

We all love a good gossip sesh from time to time, or if not, we like hearing about gossip. One of the worst things you can do is to become involved in workplace politics and controversy. Workplaces do not respect people that dish dirt or throw it around. Be inclusive and stay away from the negativity.